As I sat on the neutral ground this year during Mardi Gras helping my kids yell for and catch beads, toys, etc., I had an epiphany. Here we were, in the middle of what can only be characterized as organized chaos, and amidst the yelling, screaming, music, etc., an interesting thing happened - we made a connection. As my 3 year old - Hayes - sat slumped in his ladder, fast asleep (poor thing was sick) a float stopped in front of us and on the top deck, some 20 feet away - a young woman (I think - not sure as riders are masked) made eye contact, gave a quick little frown and then reached down and launched a toy, but only after assuring she had my attention and that I realized she was throwing to Hayes. I caught it and waved a thank you to her and then she was off.
This same thing happened a dozen or more times as the parade continued to roll on. I didn't know these people, they didn't know me but they felt something. A connection. A personal connection that made them put down the 25 cent plastic beads and toss an item that costs them (Mardi Gras float riders pay for the stuff they throw out of their own pockets) not an insignificant amount of money.
Why?
And that has gotten me thinking. About this idea - connection - the simple human need to connect to others. Powerful.
At first I thought it might just be me but then last night I read a report of Anderson Coopers' coverage - he rode in Endymion - a Super Krewe - the big parades that you see on TV. He remarked "Rolling on the float late at night, I realized Mardi Gras is not about the beads or about Bourbon Street. It's about making a connection, one person to another..." and it hit me - Anderson was right. He had captured the essence of Mardi Gras but more importantly he had captured a powerful human insight... one that I'm sure can be used to create more powerful and effective work.