Continuing on my football inspired series of posts, today's let's talk about practice. No one really likes to practice. I know I certainly did not enjoy practicing in full gear in August or September in Texas - it was hot and not a lot of fun. But what I didn't know then, but certainly know now is that you truly do play like you practice or maybe better said for business don't practice.
I practice all the time now. If I have a big pitch or a big presentation I practice it a minimum of 10 times. When I tell younger staffers at our agency they should do the same they just roll their eyes and let out a little giggle. Don't make their mistake. Practice, practice and practice some more. A lot of folks think that by practicing their presentation they'll come off like one of those Disney Automotrons (sp?) in the Hall of Presidents. But nothing could be further from the truth. By practicing so much, I begin to know my spiel like the back of my hand. I don't even need to see my slides because I can recite all of them by heart - whether I have 2 or 200 slides. That frees me up to focus on the audience when I'm presenting. To ad lib a bit if I need to based on the verbal or more importantly non-verbal signs I'm seeing. It frees me up to focus on things like body placement, eye contact, posture and what the heck I'm doing with my hands while I'm speaking. You see, by the time I give a presentation I'm no longer giving it, I'm just talking about something I've known forever -- or at least that is how it seems to the audience. And because what I'm saying seems so natural and the knowledge so embedded, the audience trusts it and really focuses on it instead of evaluating me as a speaker to determine how much they trust what I'm saying. I once gave a 2 hour brand introduction presentation to a client company and not once looked at a slide. I would have slides changing on cue as I talked. You would not believe how many people commented on how impressive it was that I never looked at the screen and how "man you really know this stuff..." comments i got after the fact.
Remember, most of the folks you see presenting in a business setting today don't practice. So they look at the screen, fumble around and in general don't really look like they know their material. They play like they practice (or would have practiced). Seize the advantage and practice -- you'll thank me later when you get promoted and they don't. I promise.
Which leads me to my second thought. I think everyone in the world should talk to themselves.
First it would make me look far less foolish when I do it, which is quite often. But second it would further reinforce the idea of practicing. Again, I practice everything. If I'm about to have a tough conversation with my boss, an employee of the agency or a client, I rehearse the conversation outloud. I even play the part of the person I'll be speaking to later. Depending on the difficulty of the conversation and the importance of the outcome I may reherse that conversation 10 or 20 times while walking, sitting at my desk or my personal favorite, driving (just clip one of those goofy ear mic's on so folks think you're talking on the phone). My wife and kids have become fond of catching daddy talking to himself. But the truth is, hearing your voice say something outloud helps you to adjust word choice, argument selection, tone, pacing and in the case of emotional conversations helps you get those emotions out before you have the real conversation. Now here again, folks will giggle when I suggest this much like you are right now, but trust me, once you get over feeling like a fool, you'll find that this practice approach leads to better, more focused and usually more successful conversations.
So to bring this all around, I'm not saying practice makes you perfect - it doesn't. But what practice does, and is desiged to do, is to create muscle/instinct memory. Super atheletes don't think in a game they react. And business communications is much the same. Whether giving a big presentation, having a difficult conversation or just handling routine Q&A with your boss, co-workers or clients, you need to train your mind and body to react not think when placed in situations. This will enable you to be ready to rise to the occassion when it comes and I think make you more successful.
But hey, that's me - the crazy guy who talks to himself. What do you think? How do you approach these situations? Anyone else out there talk to themselves? Let me know that I'm not alone ;-).